Go back to China or Stay here/SDY or Mel or Brisbane

jc2602

leozhou1385 发表于 23-9-2015 15:23
haha
u r smart
I think I will try this solution - ask them temporarily stay with me. To be hones ...

I tell you a truth. No one will treat in law as your own parent because different behavior and habit. Sometimes their bad manner even you will hate as well. So that's normal reaction. But you or your wife must understand no one can choose parent and no one can ban them as well. You can yell to them because they're your most intimate people in the world but don't skip them.

leozhou1385

jc2602 发表于 23-9-2015 15:34
I tell you a truth. No one will treat in law as your own parent because different behavior and hab ...

great
it is true- that is why locals are rare live together with there parents after their marriage. I am thinking to rent another unit for my parents if they come. I do not want to being in trouble. Known I am a trouble-maker

jc2602

leozhou1385 发表于 23-9-2015 15:48
great
it is true- that is why locals are rare live together with there parents after their marria ...

that's a good idea. Alternatively you can buy an investment property as they only travel for a short while. I don't think landlord will lease for a such short term or you pay a high rate rental. You can lease it out after they return to china then you can gain tax deduction benefit or negative gain.  

leozhou1385

jc2602 发表于 23-9-2015 15:56
that's a good idea. Alternatively you can buy an investment property as they only travel for a sho ...

I'd like to do it
the story is that we do not own any house properties here. And we were trying to buy one in this small town, and ended with nothing - is planning to move to another city

jc2602

leozhou1385 发表于 23-9-2015 16:37
I'd like to do it
the story is that we do not own any house properties here. And we were trying  ...

you still have chance you still have oppotunity unless you give up

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Come to Brisbane, at least the house price is low and the sunshine will make you feel brighter.

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不用马上决定，但是可以开始行动起来，先试试如果能在布里斯班找到工作，那么就搬吧，压力小很多