紧急求助，老公突然提出离婚，儿子五岁，预计三月份长登，一切都乱了

happyending

我们一家三口2011年7、8月份拿到的PR，11月份短登悉尼半个月，就是旅游来玩了一趟，然后回国至今。本打算今年三月份老公先来悉尼安排好住宿，学校之类的，然后我再带儿子过来，机票都买好了，行李都寄到悉尼房东家了，一切的一切都顺利进行，可是前几天，老公突然提出离婚，态度坚决，逼我和他领证。还说领了证再去悉尼还会照顾我们母子。

经过这几天的痛苦挣扎，我决定同意离婚，我想先把协议签了，然后自己带孩子来悉尼，PR就快过期了，我也没别的办法，请大家给些意见，我儿子四月份满五周岁，到这边能立刻上学吗？我该何去何从。。。

悉尼有没有单亲妈妈群之类的，我想加入，让儿子不会孤单。

周星星1832

澳洲很多单亲妈妈的。
而且政府给单亲妈妈的补助还是很多的

李天真

楼主就是想知道如何申请单亲妈妈津贴，呵呵，至于离婚啥的，无非是申请的手段摆了。

这儿有的是这样的伪单亲妈妈，你到了澳洲，自然可以知道，不必担心。

happyending

什么伪单亲妈妈，我老公逼我现在就和他领离婚证，还说领了证如果我愿意去澳洲，他还可以暂时照顾一下我们。

happyending

我本不想过去，因为我四年没有工作了，全职妈妈，英语都荒废了，可是这个机会又难得，所以最后下定决心过去，再苦也要让儿子在那边。我就想认识一些单亲的妈妈，可以沟通一下，多了解一些，将来过去了也可以让孩子认识新朋友不会孤单，不知道你们说得伪单亲是什么？

牧马人

如果是想骗津贴，直接说自己是单身妈妈就完了，这里谁也不认识谁。何必还要绕个弯讲离婚故事？

别理那厮，跟澳洲没关系的，只是来这儿扯淡打屁

sydrichard

首先表示同情，无论真伪，离婚对一个女人总不是太舒服一件事，但如果你还有家人可以帮忙的话，建议自己一个人先过来，毕竟人生地不熟的，刚开始起步带着孩子会有些困难。个人建议

sydrichard

PS, 2011年的PR到2016年应该才到期，建议楼主多做些功课，必要时在国内好好充充电再过来。

老林

不管真伪，做单亲妈妈不容易。如果是伪单亲，你签了字结果就不可控了，说不准哪一天会变真单亲，人才两失。

happyending

我知道2016年过期，但是不是要住满两年吗，才能申请续签，住满四年才可以申请国籍。不是这样的 吗？五年PR住满两年不是今年就要过去了吗

happyending

可能大家没见过我这么傻的人吧，是啊十年的感情说断就断，当初主要也是为了儿子才办的，四年全职在家照顾孩子和他，可现在逼我签字离婚，还说我要愿意带孩子过去他欢迎，不去就随我，他早就买了三月份的机票，他说反正他是去了。我现在极度痛苦和矛盾，我有手有脚骗什么钱，我儿子会怎么看我？

西澳海豚

楼主对某些言论就不用往心里去，让我们就事论事

11年下的PR，16年前入境定居就可以，即使两年不到，有需要回国，还是会给你一年期的RRV（居民回国签证）

婚都离了，就不需要太相信什么还会继续照顾的（屁话），请找个律师，好好的把离婚协议白纸黑字写好，赡养费怎么付？付多少？给说清楚讲明白。

至少在这个部分，为了自己和小孩，需要保护和规划好！

PS：你即使现在离婚，和你的PR签证一点关系都木有，不用看他脸色 ，自己掌握好状况，本身迷糊状况外，谁也帮不了你！

happyending

是啊，只能靠自己，对儿子还要强装笑脸陪她玩，大过年的父母也跟着生气，哎。。。最对不起父母 儿子，为了他们我也不会倒下的。

happyending

是啊，只能靠自己，对儿子还要强装笑脸陪她玩，大过年的父母也跟着生气，哎。。。最对不起父母 儿子，为了他们我也不会倒下的。

happyending

是啊，只能靠自己，对儿子还要强装笑脸陪她玩，大过年的父母也跟着生气，哎。。。最对不起父母 儿子，为了他们我也不会倒下的。

牧马人

不如拖到澳洲再离婚。国内签的协议对单身母亲的照顾恐怕不如这边，有财产补偿和赡养费恐怕也是按照中国标准算。到了这边就按照这边标准算了。他之所以这个节骨眼提离婚可能也是有这层考虑，怕损失太多不想拖了。

妮南

家家都有本难念的经。反正，过来前还是准备带足2年生活费。单亲家长的福利已经被削减了。

他现在说会照顾你们母子，假如他自己都工作没有保障也就成了空谈，或是等他有了新的女友钱会不够用，现在无法承诺。

阿贞

How can you get a divorce?

To apply for a divorce, you file (lodge) an application at the Federal Circuit Court

You can apply for a divorce in Australia if either you or your spouse:

bullet         regard Australia as your home and intend to live in Australia indefinitely, or
bullet         are an Australian citizen by birth, descent or by grant of Australian citizenship, or
bullet       
ordinarily live in Australia and have done so for 12 months immediately before filing for divorce.
You can only apply for divorce in Australia after you have been separated for a period of at least twelve months. If you apply for a divorce you will need to show that:

bullet       
you were married
bullet       
you have been separated for at least 12 months and 1 day
bullet       
your marriage has broken down and there is no reasonable likelihood that you will get back together
bullet       
you or your husband or wife are Australian residents or citizens or regard Australia as your permanent home
If you apply for divorce on your own, you are referred to as the applicant. If you apply for a divorce together with your husband or wife, it is known as a joint application.

There are no time limits in which to apply for a divorce.

What does the Court consider?

The Family Law Act 1975 established the principle of no-fault divorce in Australian law. This means that the Court does not consider why the marriage ended.

The only grounds for divorce is that the marriage has broken down irretrievably. That is, that there is no reasonable likelihood that you will get back together. You must have been separated for a period of twelve months in order to satisfy the court that the marriage has broken down irretrievably.

If there are children aged under 18, the Court can only grant a divorce if it is satisfied that proper arrangements have been made for them.

阿贞

How much will it cost?

You must pay a fee when you file for divorce. Information about current fees can be found on fees section of family law courts website

The fee does not apply in some cases; for example, if you hold certain government concession cards or you are experiencing financial hardship. To be eligible for a fee exemption or waiver for a joint application, both you and your spouse must qualify for the exemption or waiver. If only one spouse qualifies for the exemption or waiver, then the full fee applies. More information about fee reductions can be found on family law courts website

Talk to registry staff about details of fees and to obtain fee waiver/exemption forms.

What if you were married overseas?

You can apply to the Federal Circuit Court for divorce if you were married overseas if either you or your spouse

bullet       
are Australian citizens or residents, or
bullet       
regard Australia as your home and intend to live indefinitely in Australia .
bullet        ordinarily live in Australia and have done so for 12 months immediately before filing for divorce.
You will need a copy of your marriage certificate. If your marriage certificate is not in English, you will need:

bullet       
an English translation of the marriage certificate, and
bullet       
an affidavit from the translator which:
bullet       
states his or her qualifications to translate
bullet       
attaches a copy of the marriage certificate
bullet       
attaches the translations
bullet       
states that the translation is an accurate translation of the marriage certificate
bullet       
states that the attached copy of a marriage certificate is a true copy of the marriage certificate translated.

More information can be found in the Family Court of Australia form         Affidavit Translation of Marriage Certificate under the forms section of the Family Law Courts website

阿贞

http://www.familylawcourts.gov.a ... ion+for+Divorce+Kit

fox_ring

嗯，楼主加油，没有过不去的当下。
只是真的是不容易。不过楼主家孩子就快要上小学了，楼主过去之后可以学点别的给自己打打气。

阿贞

http://singlemum.com.au/links/si ... nefits_support.html

阿贞

Residence requirements for Parenting Payment
To be eligible for Parenting Payment you must satisfy residence requirements. You must be an Australian resident and you must:

have been an Australian resident for a period, or periods, that total at least two years, or
be exempt from this requirement—for example, by being a refugee or by having become a lone parent during your most recent period of Australian residence.
You must also:

meet residence requirements on the day you lodge your claim. Generally you will need to be physically present in Australia on the day you lodge your claim, and
continue to meet the residence requirements for as long as you get this payment
If you have lived or worked in a country with which Australia has an international social security agreement, it may help you meet these residence requirements.

xiaohu

楼主，不是我打击你，我觉得这种情形极有可能你老公不单止外面有人，甚至那人可能已经怀孕了，所以你老公才突然间那么无情的逼你尽快签字，你最好查清楚了再想对策，不要便宜了人家

阿贞

Parenting Payment (Single) and Newstart Allowance
        Parenting Payment Single        Newstart Allowance
Maximum rate per fortnight        $699.90        $542.10
Income test        Income over $176.60 per fortnight (plus $24.60 for each additional child) reduces your payment by 40 cents in the dollar        Income over $62 per fortnight reduces your payment by 40 cents in the dollar
Maximum income so still can to receive part payment        $1,959.60 per fortnight (plus $24.60 for each additional child)        $1,440.25
Advance Payment        Every 12 months        Every 12 months
Pensioner Concession Card*        Yes        Yes
Health Care Card**        No        No
Pensioner Education Supplement        Yes        Only until you complete your current course
Pharmaceutical Allowance        Yes        Yes
Rent Assistance        Yes        Yes
Mobility Allowance        Yes        Yes
Telephone Allowance        Yes        Yes
Read more about        Parenting Payment        Newstart Allowance

指纹

先想好自己的权益，不知道国内对单身母亲的保障怎么样，都到这时候了，能争取多少就争取多少，为了你自己也为了孩子，别相信内个什么承诺，扯淡的

lily777888

拖到澳洲离

lily777888

你和他说不信离婚了他会照顾你。说等你去了澳洲他兑现了承诺再离。听说现在有人换身份通过和PR结婚能拿5＜～10万澳币。不知道是不是真的。保不齐楼主那坏男人赚钱去了。

愚夫

离婚的原因没搞清楚，就不好做下面的最佳方案。原则上说能不离婚就别离，莫一时糊涂影响一生几代人。
现在这么大动静，难道事先就没一点征兆或可疑迹象？

keepdancing

楼上建议到澳后再离婚的大概对本地相关程序不了解。如果想尽快解决问题，不建议这一办法，还是在原籍国解决问题的好。因为过来再解决的话时间会拖很长。我也给法律援助（LEGAL AID）口译的，所以这方面了解的比较多些。
首先这里法庭需要确保它对受理的案件有司法管辖权，这就需要双方都在澳居住相当长一段时间，还需要了解双方是否都有意在澳永久居住。司法管辖权没问题的话，双方必须还分居12个月以上才能受理，如果不是分开住，仍在一个地方居住，那需要找证人做证或提供法定声明，届时法官会问一大串问题了解情况，看双方相互之间是不是还有接触，比如是不是一块外出买东西看电影什么的，问你会不会给对方做饭等。财产分割也是问题，通常建议在提交申请之前解决上财产纠纷，不然一旦判离，就只有一年时间处理财产，超出时限就不再按家庭法处理，会按普通民事财产纠纷处理，也就是需要交税了。如果有未成年子女，麻烦更多，就不多讲了