一个父亲的亲笔信：将同性恋儿子扫地出门！

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据统计，40%的无家可归的未成年人是同性恋。

父亲亲笔信将同性恋儿子赶出家门！
Father disowns gay son in heartbreaking letter

新闻出处
http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news ... 134gw-1226445608951

DO YOU know what hate sounds like? This reddit user does.
你知道憎恨听起来是什么样子么？

A sickening and heartbreaking letter from a father telling his gay son, James, their relationship is over has surfaced online.
一封令人不安和心痛的亲笔信日前被曝光，是一个父亲写给自己亲生的儿子的。

The scanned version of the handwritten note was posted to the social news website Reddit under the title 'This is how hate sounds'.
这封扫描信件被几大网站曝光：仇恨的声音。

His father begins with: "I hope your telephone call was not to receive my blessing for the degrading of your lifestyle. I have fond memories of our times together, but that is all in the past."
父亲写到：你的来电告诉我关于你的生活方式，你的这种生活不会受我的祝福。我们之间曾经的关系从此一笔勾销。

He then requests his son cease communication, tells him he is not welcome home and makes it clear he would not be missed at his funeral.
父亲接着要求他的儿子以后和他断绝来往，父亲还说以后这个家不再欢迎你：就算是我死了那一天，你也不要回来看我！

"You’ve made your choice though wrong it may be. God did not intend for this unnatural lifestyle," the letter reads.
你既然已经决定这么做，你选择了一条大错特错的道路。上帝不会许可你这种不正常的生活方式的。

Reddit user RegBarc, who claims to be 'James' and posted the hate letter, opened up on the site: “In August of 2007, I finally built up the courage to tell my father I was gay. The moment I said it, the phone got quiet and he got off the phone after a few 'okays'. I decided to give him time to process the news.
一个自称是这个儿子的James的Reddit用户公开了其父亲写给他的亲笔信：2007年8月，我终于鼓起勇气告诉我父亲：我是同性恋。就在我告诉我父亲这个事实的那一刻，电话的那一端变得沉默了，父亲只是简单的说了几个，就这样，然后挂掉了电话。James（儿子）说：我觉得给我父亲一点时间去消化这个消息。

"About a week later, and not long before my birthday, I received the following letter.”
一周以后，就在儿子的生日以前，儿子收到了父亲的绝笔信。

Reflecting on his life, James says he was everything a father could hope for in a son - an obedient kid and excellent student who didn't drink or touch drugs.
James说，他是任何一个父亲都会喜欢的儿子，他各个方面优秀，不酗酒也不接触毒品。

“Yet I am still seemingly deserving of this terrible act of hate and cowardice that one person can place on another. 5 years on and I am still doing fine, though this letter saunters into my mind every once in a while. When it does, I say without hesitation: F*ck you, Dad.”
然而，我还是受到了父亲极端的仇恨和报复。5年以来，我一直过得还不错，这封绝笔信还会不时的浮现于脑海，每当想起，我都会说：去死吧，父亲！

The reddit community have thrown their support behind the poster.
儿子公开这封信以后收到了整个Reddit社区的支持。

User Kriegsdrachen writes: "I don't think 'Dad' is the appropriate term for this man. He sullies everything that name stands for. He should have signed it 'Goodbye, Bigot'".
有人写到：我不认为这个人配作父亲，他辜负了【父亲】这一身份，他不应该在绝笔信中自称【父亲】，取而代之，称他自己是【盲信者】更合适。

                               
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[ 本帖最后由 xblues 于 9-8-2012 16:17 编辑 ]

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这个出处来自一个英国网站，下面有很多评
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ ... isowns-gay-son.html

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Well thats certainly what Jesus would want then.
基督耶稣肯定也是这样想的，写得很好！
- Helen, Petaluma, CA United States, 8/8/2012 8:15
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I have 4 kids and i would disown them aswell if they came out!!!! Why the hell cant anyone have an opinion anymore? We are all being slowly brainwashed by the western goverments!
我有4个孩子，要是任何一个告诉我他是同性恋，我也会一样抛弃他的！！！！现在难道人都不能够有自己的想法了么？你们现在都逐渐的被西方政府所洗脑啦！
- you wont print this Mail!!!! sick of uk, oldbury, 8/8/2012 21:20
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I have sympathy for the guy, but why do so many homosexuals feel the need to tell their parents? Keep you're private life to yourself, problem solved!
我觉得这个同性恋很可怜，为什么那么多同性恋感觉那么有必要非得告诉家人？你自己的私生活我不要知道，不就没问题啦！
- Colin, Ayrshire, 8/8/2012 21:42
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Correct and well written.
写的真好！
- bobbie, UK, 8/8/2012 18:23
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Washing your dirty linen in public - not very admirable.
家丑不可外扬啊！
- Isabella jackman, brit in germany, 9/8/2012 0:56
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Why is it wrong for the father to disown the son...not everyone HAS to agree with homosexuality just because it's the "modern" thing to do, my daughter is a lesbian it took a long while for me to accept it, ok I didn't disown her I love her dearly, but she respects my feelings and doesn't flaunt her lifestyle in my face and because of this I am more accepting of her partner and it's all worked out fine for us, but I still don't like or agree with homosexuality and agree this is not what GOD intended...that my dears is my choice and my right to my opion..the son is the one who made it public...he has to live with it....
为什么要责备这个父亲抛弃了儿子的做法呢？每个人都可以有自己的观点。同性恋如今变得越来越时髦啦。花费了很长时间，我才接受我女儿是女同志的这个事实，我当初没有把她赶出家门，我真的很爱我的女儿啊，但是我女儿也尊重我的感受，所以她从来不在我面前表露她的生活方式，就因为这个，我才接受了她的女朋友，目前为止，我们相处的还不错。但是我还是不赞同同性恋，我觉得这有悖上帝的意愿。我有权利表达我的这个想法。这个儿子把自己的家丑外扬，只能自己受着。
- sandi, essex, 9/8/2012 1:07
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It was a private letter, and it was wrong to release it on the internet. End of story.
家丑不可外扬，从这一点上，这个儿子错啦！
- GrumpyOldLady, Maryland, U.S., 8/8/2012 22:49
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