掌声为谁而鸣
First of all, I suggest we deliver a stand ovation to HuanYu, who has gone all out to raise awareness to the FreeOzers on what open discussion should be all about in this forum.It goes without saying that all of us come here to seek comfort, sense of belonging, happiness, and of course, sometimes seek assistance from other FreeOzers. Unfortunately, sometimes, the disputes erupt when people don’t see eye to eye on certain issues. That’s when people’s communication skills are put on serious test.
This is when the democracy has to come to live: Take the matters on the table, so everybody will be able to see it, evaluate it, come to their own conclusion and share their mind if they like.
Most of FreeOzers show their grace to discuss about the issues that confront them, most of the time, issues got resolved with agreement achieved. Sometimes there won’t be any solutions resulted, but all the parties involved at least show they come to peace with respecting each others’ differences. But, occasionally, some FreeOzers go to the extreme trying to get their idea accepted by their opponents, even so desperate that they start badmouthing to the other parties, verbal aggressions or even worse, swearing at the their dissenters. In this situation, the moderators or ZHT have to step in working as a mediator, but, the justice couldn’t be possibly done for all parties involved.
Just as @指纹 put, justice is a relative concept, different parties will draw different conclusions from different angles! So, I would like to make a public appeal: No matter how this solution suits your needs, all of my friends, please keep your composure, keep your perspective, keep your rationality, keep your passion and don’t show your distance! If we love this forum, we love it as a family, we love it to the bits! Even though, sometimes our sisters and brothers have drastically different views on the same issue, we still respect one another, care about one another, look out for one another!
Secondly, I move that we give @ubuntuhk and ZHTs our sincere round of stand ovation, who provide both technical and managerial support to this forum to ensure its full function; who tolerate the criticism from the bystanders while working hard to meet the needs from all walks of FreeOz life.
To be honest, we are well aware that it's a whole lot easier for the bystanders (Me, for example) to pick the bone with someone who is really the doer, because we have no idea how hard it is to steer a big cruise towards the sound direction while the passengers hold the different visions about which direction this ship should be sailing to!
However, being the passengers on the deck, we all are obliged to take responsibilities for this cruise to stay floating. If we are unable to decide on what destination this cruise will take us to, we at least can do our share not to stomp on it!
We are well aware that being a part of the management team in this forum demands a whole lot more than what we ordinary FreeOzers can ever imagine: Passion, caring, knowledge, wisdom, resilience, tolerance and the generosity to make a compromise. To top them all, more touchingly, the motivation to make the sacrifice to the cause you have chosen to commit yourself to, because that's the only cause you have put so much effort in, invested your wisdom on and devoted your knowledge to that won't get you anywhere to raise your social status and won't get you even a penny better off financially.
All you have done are just the volunteering missions, in the meanwhile, you still have to face the questions we might have if there is any possible negligence. If it weren't for passion about this forum, weren't for the joy you could pursue from steering this big cruise, we really wouldn't be able to make any sense out of what you have been doing for this website!
So, we have absolutely looked up to you all and held dearly the wonderful experiences you have brought in to our Ozzy life!
Now, I suggest that the third round stand ovation goes to the general FreeOzers, who haven’t taken a laissez faire attitude towards this dispute! In particular, applause to @welshzh @嘟嘟宝贝 @shyaka @doreadme @webster @Serin @jc2602 @kevin妈妈@幸福妈妈and many others, for speaking up their mind regarding what ground they are standing on, for bringing up their ideas in a rational and reasonable approach. The brilliant arguments they have put forward absolutely have broaden our visions, prompted us all to talk to ourselves in soul-searching level and pull things back to perspective. Personally, I love this dynamic of communication, which pushes us all to think wisely before we are well conscious about what we are talking about!
Even though we can’t agree with one another at all times, we still keep the communication line open and functional. This is really what a huge family is all about, SEEK THE COMMON GOAL WITH RESPECTING THE DISSENT! If anything similar happens in the future, we can still follow this pathway, then, I don’t see any reason why things can’t be sorted out on a reasonable term!
To take a bold guess, I reckon that everybody has, more or less, learned something from this event and how FreeOzers have taken a constructive avenue to deal with it. And I am very positive that all that involved have taken part in this lengthy discussion out of sincerity and love for this forum.
So, thank all of you for showing your care and concerns about how this family should be united even though we came from various backgrounds and have different characteristics. You have demonstrated that we all hold accountability for our own behaviours and obliged to keep this family sound and functional.
Love you all in every sense!
补充内容 (25-10-2014 08:22):
For those of us, who are a bit upset about this depressive turn of event, please don't show your distance! We, especially us, it's crucial to hang around to监督丫的！Lol Hmmm...I'm really dizzying to read a long article I think I'm older...anyway your points like a arrow shot our hearts. I also moved as I fully agee your views.:good 讨论的前提是
不可以无根据地
无节制地
恶意揣测， 贬低和诽谤他人
毫无收敛
没有这个前提
就变成了谩骂
没有任何建设性意义
我觉得“正”“反” 队员 都是基于为了这个论坛好这个心情 在讨论
可以不同意对方观点
乃至讨厌
但是讨论是要尊重对方这个人的
调侃可以
恶意贬低 无节制 就过头了 mite 发表于 25-10-2014 14:32
我觉得“正”“反” 队员 都是基于为了这个论坛好这个心情 在讨论
可以不同意对方观点
乃至讨厌
老麦说的对，但是很多事情，知意行难。
我们目前在寻求的，正是如何通过组织上或者技术上，来帮助人性上的缺陷。 没太看的懂！:@
英语哇英语
英语介么用是否很烦？:@ dcxg 发表于 28-10-2014 06:00
没太看的懂！
英语哇英语
Even by doing this, I still couldn't get rid of you, 尼玛！:yct_4
You seem quite regular if there is a party with my presence!So, I take that you quite enjoy it! :yct_4 yping88 发表于 29-10-2014 09:55
Even by doing this, I still couldn't get rid of you, 尼玛！
You seem quite regular if the ...
Apparently, he is your admirer. Everything he did is only for attracting your attention.
Cherish him.;P shyaka 发表于 29-10-2014 12:07
Apparently, he is your admirer. Everything he did is only for attracting your attention.
Cheris ...
Cherish him?
I have always done that and intend to do so for as long as he hangs around! :yct_4
We love 尼玛哥， he is the role model for us all in taking nothing seriously! :yct_4 I hate to admit it, but I have learnt a whole lot from him!Don't you think so, Shyaka?
I didn't say this for you to brag about yourself, 尼玛哥！ so, don't you get too carried away! :yct_4
dcxg 发表于 28-10-2014 06:00
没太看的懂！
英语哇英语
告诉你内容哈...
没你什么事有我一点事
有人会有事有人会没事
完了
写多了怕你看不懂:ppb_50 welshzh 发表于 29-10-2014 15:03
告诉你内容哈...
没你什么事有我一点事
You totally lighten up my day, welshzh! ;P welshzh 发表于 29-10-2014 15:03
告诉你内容哈...
没你什么事有我一点事
就是挺事儿的内个意思呗？:yct_4 yping88 发表于 29-10-2014 15:31
You totally lighten up my day, welshzh!
翻译过来就是welshzh让你阳光灿烂内意思呗？:lol shyaka 发表于 29-10-2014 12:07
Apparently, he is your admirer. Everything he did is only for attracting your attention.
Cheris ...
你们都是哥的fans:@
千万别搞反啦:lol ;P;P;P dcxg 发表于 30-10-2014 05:09
翻译过来就是welshzh让你阳光灿烂内意思呗？
Yeah, you could say that, 尼玛！
But you got your logic lost here. It sounds weied if you say" a person 阳光灿烂，which can only be used to describe the day, weather..."
A dumbass as you are, tell me how many more times you need to be taught to get your logic in order? :yct_4
补充内容 (30-10-2014 12:26):
Sounds weired--corrected a previous TYPO ! dcxg 发表于 30-10-2014 05:10
你们都是哥的fans
千万别搞反啦
俺第一个承认是你的铁粉
专门埋汰你的
够哥们够义气吧:yct_32 yping88 发表于 29-10-2014 13:55
Yeah, you could say that, 尼玛！
But you got your logic lost here. It sounds weied if you say"...
dumbass dcxg ;P;P;P dcxg 发表于 30-10-2014 05:09
翻译过来就是welshzh让你阳光灿烂内意思呗？
正解
把阳光都给Yping88
把你埋进土里，见不到光:yct_41 yping88 发表于 29-10-2014 15:31
You totally lighten up my day, welshzh!
有阳光就有希望。
抱歉歪解了你的文章，不过中心思想牢记在心，以供自勉！ dcxg 发表于 30-10-2014 05:08
就是挺事儿的内个意思呗？
横着看是你那这意思
要换个角度看问题，竖着看：
你没什么事，但是会有事
我有一点事，但是会没事
再换个角度看问题，交叉着看：
有我一点事有人会有事
没你什么事有人会没事
再再换个角度看问题，倒交叉看：
有人会没事没你什么事
有人会有事有我一点事
没完没了 宇宙真理
有完没完 人生真理
懂了没？
懂了你就悟了:yct_63 welshzh 发表于 30-10-2014 11:03
横着看是你那这意思
要换个角度看问题，竖着看：
这是在写天书咩？:funk: 指纹 发表于 30-10-2014 11:13
这是在写天书咩？
这不算天书;P
天书是这么写的：
把你我倒个个，三维角度看问题（腾飞到天空），跳跃着看:L
我知道原理写不出来，有人也不让写;P
:handshake
welshzh 发表于 30-10-2014 11:21
这不算天书
天书是这么写的：
显然我的智商已经不够了:L dcxg 发表于 30-10-2014 05:10
你们都是哥的fans
千万别搞反啦
Of course! Without your fans, what can blow you flying on the sky?;P shyaka 发表于 30-10-2014 11:45
Of course! Without your fans, what can blow you flying on the sky?
My best guess for 尼玛哥's answer would be"神马都是浮云！” lol
Did I get it right, @dcxg? 指纹 发表于 30-10-2014 11:25
显然我的智商已经不够了
I am afraid that I have to agree with you on this one, 指纹！ lol yping88 发表于 30-10-2014 12:22
I am afraid that I have to agree with you on this one, 指纹！ lol
含义忒深，看不懂了:L 指纹 发表于 30-10-2014 12:31
含义忒深，看不懂了
Take your time, zhiwen! welshzh 发表于 30-10-2014 11:03
横着看是你那这意思
要换个角度看问题，竖着看：
法克，哥都替@Michelle 捉鸡！:yct_4
补充内容 (30-10-2014 13:13):
介种头脑还是做饭比较合适
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