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When milk bars and skimpy bathers lured teens to ruin
Steven Martin, 18, is a student at the University of the Sunshine Coast and has been dating Emily Hill, 16, a Year 12 student at St John’s College in Nambour, for almost a year.
Max Gordon, 16, and Alix W, 17, are also in Year 12 at St John’s college and Max’s girlgriend, O, 17, is in Year 12 at Maroochydore State High.
Beau W, 19, and Rose H, 18, have been together for more than two years.
They attended different high schools and are now studying business at the University of the Sunshine Coast.
Here, this group of modern teenagers give their views on the parents’ guide to understanding teenagers in 1968, under each of the six categories.
The code said” Steady company-keeping is the normal preparation for marriage. Steady dating can and often does lead to tragic consequences. These are intimacies, premature and immature marriages, and heartbreak if one party ends the association.
‘Going steady and single-dating for young teenagers thrusts adolescents into an adult world for which they are not ready.
Today’s teens were unanimous in their verdict” what a joke. It’s ridiculous.
Max: You can’t be this young and thinking about marriage just because you’ve got a girlfriend. I want a friend, not a wife.
Beau: These rules should apply to, like, 12 year olds. When you’re 16 you’re old enough and you’re going to do it anyway.
Emily: Marriage has never crossed my mind. It’s about having fun together, not about marriage.
Recreation
The code said: parents should make their homes available for the group activities of teenagers. There is a deplorable drift away from the home as a place where teenagers might gather and have their fun.
Too often the sound lounge, street corner, the milk bar and over loaded car have become the gathering places of teenagers because they were not encouraged to gather at home.
Parents should promote wholesome, constructive and cultural hobbies for their teenagers. Drive-in theatres should be banned for single dates and are not recommended for group dates.
Today’s teens had no idea what a sound lounge even was, thought that a milk bar sounded like it would be great fun and called for the return of the drive-in theatre, as it would be a ‘top make-out area’.
Emily: parents encourage us to be at home. At their house they can decide when a party ends. Anywhere else kids can decide what they want.
Alix: parents like you to bring your friends around so they can watch you.
Beau: not man people overload cars or drink and drive. The laws are really strict on that.
Dress
The code said: this section on teenager conduct deals with dress – or more specifically with modesty and good taste in dress.
Modesty preserves chastity. Thus one must not be concerned solely with how he or she feels like dressing, nor with what is comfortable in dress, nor even with what may be popular in dress. It’s more important to be concerned with what will be the effect upon the feelings of others.
Public swimming and sun-baking are not occasions for abandoning discretion. Swimsuits too small or too tight should never be used.
A young man is embarrassed if his partner draws unnecessary attention by dressing in a provocative manner..
Today’s teens rejected the idea their dress might affect others, and were unanimous in proclaiming that they should dress the way they wanted; in what made them comfortable and feel good about themselves.
They were not familiar with the phrase ‘modesty preserves chastity’ – do you mean dressing like a slapper? One asked.
Max: you can wear what you want to wear. I’m not worried about modesty for my girlfriend. It’s more like this is my girlfriend if other guys are looking at her.
Emily: it’s your own choice what you wear as long as you cover the main bits on the beach. Steve doesn’t care how I dress.
Drinking
The code said: alcohol is a menace for the young. Experience proves that drinking is definitely the cause of much misconduct and danger on the part of teenagers.
The drinking of alcoholic beverages of any kind should be absolutely prohibited to teenagers.
Today’s teenagers could not imagine drinking being totally prohibited or excluding a drinker from their group. Alcohol prohibited to teenagers? No way!
Max: parents should teach kids to drink properly before they are 18, otherwise they just go for it and then really hurt themselves. If they are kept in a cage they will get blind out of their mind when they turn 18.
Alix: parents prefer it if kids drink at home while they are around so that they can supervise it. That’s better than not knowing what they are up to somewhere else.
Drugs
The code lists the effect and dangers of marijuana, amphetamines, barbiturates, cocaine, morphia and its derivatives, heroin, LSD and aspirin, phenacetin and caffeine compounds.
It’s well known that drug peddlers hang round schools, milk bars, sound and coffee lounges and places frequented by teenagers and try to make friends with boys and girls to induce them to take drugs.
Today’s teenagers listed ice and heroin as the most dangerous drugs they knew. |
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