到西泥已二天了,大试所望,想回去,很后悔来

shone

究竟怎么回事啊？<br>
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shone

就是，没有失望就不会有希望，没有波谷哪来波峰？<br>
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不会游泳的鱼

进CITY看看吧，能看到SYDNEY繁华现代化的一面，也许会感觉好些。

JACK

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maggie_wang

<table width=100% bgcolor=#cccccc cellpadding=5 cellspacing=1 class=TBone><tr><td bgcolor=#f7f7f7 class=TBBG9><b>下面引用由<u>brightfuture</u>发表的内容：</b><br>
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二天前带二岁小孩和老婆到西泥,一切都感觉不好,无论语言和环境,语言有问题,交流有问题,环境不熟和冷清,象个乡村,生活和工作无着落,想家,挂电话回家大哭,真后悔莫及,在国类好好的搞何移民</td></tr></table><br>
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楼主<img src="../leadbbsfile/UBBicon/em05.GIF"  align=absmiddle border=0><img src="../leadbbsfile/UBBicon/em05.GIF"  align=absmiddle border=0><img src="../leadbbsfile/UBBicon/em05.GIF"  align=absmiddle border=0><img src="../leadbbsfile/UBBicon/em05.GIF"  align=absmiddle border=0>

楼主真实心态的反映,支持.好过很多虚伪的人发些无聊的帖子

brightfuture

首先谢谢大家的关心,FREEOZ在我移民和在西泥现在的心态的帮助是巨大的,多谢大家.有一情况说明,八月在电脑上的VET问题是代一个朋友问的,大家别误会.我的情况和心情是真的.<br>
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我想一切都会好的,我的一朋友说你如现在回家,过几年你一定会后悔的,因为大家来时的情况都一样,要定住,过后就好了,如回去,就没机会来了,几年后看到在这的朋友都搞的不错,你会后悔当初轻易回去的决定的,<br>
大家绝的有理吗?<br>
特别多谢给我流邮箱的好心朋友,我已给你的短消息中留了我的手机号,有空联系我,多谢

besttiger

It seems that the guy complaining about everything in OZ is to some degree a "child" in his both EQ and IQ. He knows nothing about overseas countries and hnows nothing about himself. Now that he leads a "better" life in China, the motion he chooses to migrate to OZ is put into doubt. To be frank, I suspect such people's surviving ability even in China! I think his "better" life in China is not from his own career endeavor, but from his parents or in-laws. Anyway, similar posts are frequently seen in forums, not merely in FREEOZ, and I suggest friends here to be alert or just disrard those rubbishes. Get and offer useful information here and make true friends. That's my opinion.

china1001

可以理解楼主的心情，我也有类似的情绪，只不过我的原因可能是因为想家，我从小到大没离开过父母的，到现在还是有点不习惯。不过我觉得一旦找到工作，有了经济收入后，有了新的朋友后，一切就会好的。其实来之前大家应该都是做好先苦后甜的准备的，但是当澳洲就在脚下时，当所有预见到的困难摆在面前时，心中有点胆怯，有点恐慌是难免的。我觉得楼主现在要做的就是要先安慰好lp的情绪，然后两人一起努力克服眼前的难关。如果过了半年左右你还是现在这种情绪，那你真的是可以考虑回去，因为你不适应这里，没有必要再在这里浪费时间了，回国至少还有亲人在等着你们享天伦之乐，焉知非福呢！

aussie

个人意见：尝试呆一段时间，实在不行就回国，没什么大不了的。楼主才来几天，看法也许有点悲观，只能建议给自己一个时间表，在这个时间内尽自己最大努力去适应，实在熬不住了，也不必要强求自己勉强呆在这里。要尊重自己的看法和决定。论坛里也应该欢迎各种声音。<br>
我认为真的不能长期只打labour工，继续下去……很累，不仅仅是身体，更是累心，关键的是看不到未来，不知道这样打labour工的生活还要持续多久……难道真的只能通过这种方式把自己训练成没有大喜大悲，没有欲求，才是真正的适应了澳洲吗？<br>
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sydney

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ossen

我也才来三周.记得年初有次悉尼移友聚会,<br>
要是有在悉尼朋友多的老移友,再组织一次聚会最好了

月亮

希望越大，失望越大

outspace2001

性格使然

奶酪男007

看得出楼主也就这点出息, 就当我是在火上浇油好了!

spirit1

没看过偶的经历吗?大家都是一样的感觉,很快就会过去的!

YARK

bless u， mate

勇者

其实,刚开始都不容易.何况你才来了第二天,现在下结论还太早了.想想你当初办移民的初衷.现在老天给了你机会了,我们是否应该努力的去适应这里的一切.澳洲一定有他吸引人的地方,否则也不会有那么多的人挤破头的想过来,能移民的人都是人才.慢慢调整自己的心态,你一定会找到属于你自己的位置<br>

月亮

刚来都这样啦。。<br>
换个新环境肯定不适应，<br>
就比如你换个工作，开始两天和同事都不认识，<br>
看着他们说说笑笑，也很郁闷的<br>
更何况你现在是换了国家，换了身份。。。<br>
不要这么快灰心，<br>
忍耐过这段日子，<br>
一切都会好起来的。。。<br>
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大家都是这么过来的，<br>
你也可以的<br>
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flypast

如果回国可以的话，也是一个选择

云中岳

我建议来澳洲的人来之前应在几个坛子呆半年,然后来之后就不会有大喜大悲的感觉了.<br>
我来第一天心情不好,地二天开始喜欢悉尼了.<br>
给你个时间表, 你应该在2个星期内开始工作,出去找就能找到. 一个星期内到BONDI BEACH 和歌剧院边上的植物园走走,心情就会调整过来.<br>
觉得细腻是农村,是因为你选择住在细腻的农村.住在GEOGRE街就不觉得是农村了.<br>

laycee

当是到澳洲旅游了.

horseanddragon

无语。。。<br>
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大老爷们，人生转折，做决定时要考虑清楚，做完决定则要义无返顾。拖家带口心情可以理解，但面包总要自己赚，老婆孩子总要自己养。不是后悔的时候，哭完就去忙乎吧。<br>
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楼上一位兄弟有讲，生活就是一场强奸。不过请不要享受这种强奸的乐趣，大老爷们，积极强奸生活吧！～～<br>
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心态决定一切。

sparrow2004

在国内有房有车还来作什么？？？太轻率了。

bianfuxia26

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Bessy_liu

楼主要坚持住,困难是暂时的,总会过去的.在给自己一段时间,感觉还是不好再回国吧

WAer

i think you should think seriously before making any decision.

goldeneye

看来楼主在国内舒服惯了，干嘛还去悉尼？？？<br>
其实，那些国内的苦孩子是不会这样说的

lampoo

楼主千万挺住啊，你是一家之主！<br>
既然选择了这条路，就不要轻易后悔，实际上到哪里都有一个适应的过程，何况是外国！坚持，自信，乐观，你一定会拥有自己的一份天空！

小山

偶建议楼主先送老婆和孩子回国，然后楼主一个人留在悉尼，找工作。<br>
等情况好些再接老婆和孩子去悉尼。<br>
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