教孩子一些餐桌上的礼仪

hohoho

常常看到讨论孩子以后要进入澳洲的主流社会，那么给孩子教一些主流社会的礼仪是必不可少的，因为有些无心的动作有可能被认为是非常rude。影响到孩子的社会交往能力。

Table manners for children

Before coming to the table:
. Wash your hands before sitting down to eat. Never eat with your hands.
. Leave toys, books, and pets behind. Televisions should be switched OFF at mealtimes.
. If you have a cold or a sniffle make sure you have given your nose a good blow.
. Polite dinner conversation is a sign you are growing up. Adults may ask you what you did at school today so think of the answers you can provide.

At the table:
. When you sit down, place the napkin in your lap.
.Sit up straight and don't slouch.
. Ask politely for dishes to be passed. Never reach across the table.
. Wait until everyone is seated and served before starting to eat. If grace is said, do not eat until it is completed. Don't giggle during grace.
.Never talk while another person is talking.
. Sniffling is considered EXTREMELY rude. Leave the table and blow your nose.(Sniffling is VERY bad manners in every situation)

Eating etiquette:
.Never chew with your mouth open
. Never talk with a mouth full of food. Never put too much food in your mouth at the one time.
. Use utensils quietly without banging them on the table or plate. You should place your knife softly on the edge of the plate when not in use.
. Slice butter from the butter dish and place it on your butter plate or other plate. The butter knife should stay with the butter dish.
.Never wave or throw utensils.
.Keep your knife out of your mouth.
.Never play with your food.
.Never grab food from other people's plates or comment on what is left on their plate.
.Ask politely for seconds if you want them.
.Keep your elbows off the table.

After the meal:
.Ask to be excused from the table
.Clear your plate from the table and take it into the kitchen.
.Push your chair in before leave the table.
.Whenever in doubt as to what to do, watch a polite adult and follow their lead.

不完善的地方，还是希望大家补充和纠正。

[ 本帖最后由 fangrun 于 21-11-2008 01:49 编辑 ]

echo8850

楼上自己总结的？  --- 那真是太有才了

谢谢分享！

hohoho

嘿嘿，抄的，我就打打字而已 谢谢加分

不过，我感觉，咱们的孩子要想很好地融入主流社会，礼仪是必不可少的内容。我接触的澳洲孩子们，礼仪都非常好，比如吃完饭，都会问老师，我把带的lunch都吃完了，现在可不可以pack away? 而不是吃完自己就离座而去。而且都会把椅子推进桌子下面。还有一些看似简单的其实也很重要，比如别人在讲话的时候绝对不能讲话，否则就会被认为是rude.
澳洲这里很流行sleep over，孩子们以后都会有很多机会去别的家庭住上一晚，跟他们共进晚餐，所以礼仪也很重要。

echo8850

ls说得没错！
我会把lz的帖子打印下来，先自己熟读，再慢慢灌输给孩子。

hohoho

都夸你女儿小淑女，还这么谦虚

echo8850

原帖由 hohoho 于 18-8-2007 23:02 发表

                               
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都夸你女儿小淑女，还这么谦虚

谢谢 --- 还是有许多要改善的地方

suntang

这个是要好好学习的，谢谢LZ！

1301

will teach my babay later

hohoho

两个女儿都好漂亮，羡慕～～

蓝色的心情

LS的这位同学原来是学幼儿教育的啊?

那更要见一面了

hohoho

记性太差 我告诉过你的啊，你还问我在哪一个preschool，全都忘了
跟本地人和本地孩子接触越多，越感觉到，不同文化对于礼仪要求的不同。如果想得到本地人的认可和尊重，更要符合他们的礼仪规范才行。以前在图书馆里借过一本书，也是谈小孩礼仪的，哪些行为是礼貌的，哪些是rude。可惜当时没给大家抄下来 大家可以去附近的图书馆找找。

蓝色的心情

恩, 年纪大了, 记性不好了, 见谅啊

那本书的名字还记得吗?

hohoho

好像是叫－－Bad Manners
是儿童书，比较大，正方形的。这周末再去图书馆找找，要有借来抄给大家。

yc_susan

谢谢， 回家慢慢读给孩子听！也读给自己听，不好意思！！

[ 本帖最后由 yc_susan 于 8-11-2007 19:32 编辑 ]

水晶鞋子

原帖由 1301 于 19-8-2007 14:04 发表

                               
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will teach my babay later

预产期啥时候啊？

marissa

好文，我也接触到一些在澳洲受过良好教育的孩子，言谈举止都非常得体大方，男孩像绅士，女孩像公主。我也在想，我以后也要教育自己的孩子。

Shanshanlai

好文章， 谢谢楼主。。

亲爱的

我lg老教闺女吃饭发出赞叹声，咋说也不成，把之前要培养淑女的事全忘了